Let’s say I’m a 6. Is there any way a 9 would date me? Feeling Out Of My League Well Feeling Out Of My League, I have good news for everyone who thinks they shouldn’t talking to Person X because they’re out of your league: There’s no such thing. People are so harsh on themselves that a lot of the time, even on online personals sites, people only try to go for others w... Read On
I’ve been getting to know a woman online for a few months now, but I’ve still been exploring my options. Should I let her know that I’ve been talking to other people online as well, or is that not necessary? Paul Detroit, Michigan Well Paul, the joy of online dating is that you do have this option. The point of utilizing it is to meet as many people as you can in a convenient loc... Read On
When you’re moving on from the online stage of your relationship to face-time, it’s easy to already be comfortable with the person you’ve been talking to, so they slip into relationship habits right away. What they don’t realize, is that a lot of those habits aren’t good for the relationship. There are several things you need to make sure you’re avoiding when on... Read On
Here at Online Personals FAQ, the e-mails we usually get in are questions about how to navigate online personals and the apprehensions that come along with it. This morning we were glad to open our inbox to a lovely e-mail from a frequent reader named Mary who has given us permission to share her success story with our OPFAQ readers. My first husband, Gerry, passed away in 2004. I guess like any y... Read On
It seems like every week I get messages like the following: Is there any way to keep my identity anonymous while using internet dating sites? ‘Carroll’ There’s no shame in online dating! Over 30% of everybody in America has signed up for some form of dating service online before, and over 80% of singles of 35 have signed up for one. With it being such a growing trend, there’... Read On
Is there any way I could sign up for a dating site without having to show my face? I’d much rather try online dating discretely. First Time Dater Well FTD, there’s no rules in online dating sites that make it mandatory for you to post a profile picture, but you’re going to have a hard time dating if you don’t have one. Since you’re not seeing the person face-to-face, ... Read On
I’ve noticed that a lot of guys profiles are looking for women ‘between the ages of 18 and 49.’ That seems pretty broad. I’m 28, is there a certain age range I should be shooting for? Leah, Markham Well Leah, most online personals websites have a default age range of 18-49, so if that’s what you’re seeing, it’s probably because they simply didn’t tak... Read On
I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years and am about to start dating online for the first time. Wish me luck! Rachel Dallas, Texas Online datingis the best way to get back into the love game after a break up! You get to take things slow, talk to people who have the same interests as you, and get to know new people without the pressure of sitting through a first date. Although your e-mail ... Read On
I’m about to go on a first date with a guy I met online, but I don’t know what to wear. It’s just a dinner, but what if I underdress? What if I overdress? Help! Karen Meeting someone you met through a personals search in real life is more or less your first impression. Sure this person knows you online, but this is the first chance they’re getting to  see your body languag... Read On
Next month is my younger sisters wedding, and I refuse to go alone. Do you think it’s appropriate to bring a date I found online to such a big family event? Samantha Well Samantha, when it comes to wedding dates, you can bring just about anyone, but with online dates there may be risks. You need to insure you know your date well. Are they the kind of person that is good with big crowds? When... Read On